Homework and Wanting to Play Dumb

Updated on August 11, 2009
S.T. asks from Kansas City, KS
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My son is 6 and getting ready to start school my question is if he doesn't want to do his school work he plays dumb just to get me wound up and mad. What should I do to get him to stop and just do his work and get it done with out the hassle?? HE knows it will make me mad and usually I'll send him to his room I have tried to make him just sit at the table also till he does it and he'll usually sit for a few minutes and realizes he's not going to get a reaction from me and then he'll do it but how long should I make him sit there??

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R.M.

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Sounds to me like you are handling it well....don't over react...stay as calm as possible...and just make him stick with it until he is done. I can't imagine that a 6 year old has much in the way of homework...so it should be an easy process for him to complete it.
Maybe you could entice him with a "reward" for finishing his homework...dessert....a favorite video...family playtime. Make it worth his while to get his homework done and out of the way.
If you establish a pattern now...he will have study habits that stand him in good stead for years!!! Could I suggest that you talk to his teacher after school starts...he/she should have some great ideas about how to make things work more smoothly without the constant battles.
R. Ann

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S.L.

answers from Kansas City on

S.,
This is such a boy trait! I've seen it almost constantly in almost every daycare boy I have ever had. It sounds like you are handling things right and I would make him sit there until it's done. It only gets worse. My daughter is 9 and we are starting to go through this. She used to do such a great job of getting her work done! Now it's always too hard, too boring, and she is just way too distracted. She will NOT win this battle!

Suzi

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K.S.

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Make him sit there until he does it and don't give him the reaction he wants from you, sounds like it's simple since you already have this figured out. Let him sit at the table and don't say a word to him until he gets going on his homework. You're already stressing out and school hasn't even started, perhaps he senses your stress and for some reason likes to push your buttons, so don't give him any buttons and be the parent in charge here.

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