F.V.
A.,
Relax and know that your lil one will be just fine. We have 2 cats and have yet to move the food bowls. My boy did end up covered in water 2x and has dumped the food but he has learned now by "NO" said about a million times and expaining why not to touch. You are lucky, wait till she can reach the stove (still trying to keep him from turning on the gas pilot). At least you don't have stairs! Ours are set that there is not one gate out there that fits properly so we depend on the tension one that barely works and have trained him that when it is up he does not mess with it. It is a lot of "no's" and training. Your hubby will need to remember that you have a little one crawling and to take off the clothes and shoes at the door. I do that with everyone (removal of shoes not clothes ha ha ha)...they may get mad or don't see the sense in it but this is our house and if they don't like it well, they can not come over. Rocks already got tracked in and I found them in time. Close the door to the room with the cords, or move the computer that is dangerous. Keep bathroom doors closed too. I never used the pack and play and my son is doing great. Not saying he is perfect but he does listen and he is just 16 months (I am sure as he gets older that will change...ha ha). Good luck and remember that she will get into things but remove the breakables and the things you do not need right now. But make sure you keep an area that has "the pretty's" like a shelf with photos and knick knacks and teach her to not touch certain things this way she will respect that in others homes.
Good luck!
Chris