Home Childcare Costs Question

Updated on April 10, 2011
K.D. asks from Bringhurst, IN
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I will begin a new part-time job sometime in the next months. My oldest is in school, but my youngest will need to have childcare, approx. 2-3 days per week. I live in a rural area dotted by small towns that are about 10 miles in distance from each other. There is a daycare close by, but because of religious differences, I do not wish my child to go there. Therefore, I was looking at home daycare. There is a lady who lives close by. I was referred to her. We have talked and she seems most eager to watch our child, and both children during the summer. I thought she watched several other children, but that is not the case. I asked her what she would charge and she didn't know. So now I've been trying to determine what others pay for home-based child care in our area. It ranges from $17-$20 per day, per child from a few other mothers I have spoken to. Those are homes that have several children being watched. But since we would be her only "income" from this, does that seem low? I'm trying to look at this from both sides. There's no way we can afford $8/per hour. $5/hour would take most of the pay I would receive. Any thoughts would be appreciated. P.S. I already work another part-time job, and my mother in-law watches the girls for us during those times. I did not think it fair to ask her to watch the girls with this new job. They have done so much for us and she really values her free time.

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S.H.

answers from St. Louis on

Since your children will be the only ones there, I would seriously consider a different provider. I would prefer my children to be with other kids, to be with a provider with current/up-to-date experience, to be with someone who's dedicated to her job & not just starting out (or starting again with kids).

The fact that she is undetermined in her fees ....is a red flag for me! What else is she just "winging" it on?

Should you decide to use her, please do not feel guilty or responsible for her income. She is responsible for this! Pay the going rate....& leave it at that. You are not in charge of her finances.....she is!

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S.M.

answers from Kansas City on

If you are seeking her out because she is only keeping your children and that's what you want, then I could see you needing to pay her a bit more than the going rate. However, since I believe she can have up to 5 or 6 kids in Indiana without being licensed and it's her home, it's not your job to pay more than the going rate. However, I think 20 dollars per day is just ridiculous low in this day and age. I would say to pay 25 per day for 1 child and $40 dollars per day for 2 if she's willing to do that in the summer. I know a lot of providers feel like they are not going to do less for the 2nd child than they do for the first, so they won't discount for siblings. I do. But sometimes I really struggle not to feel resentful over it.

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C.B.

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Hi,
We have a 3 1/2 year old. He started school around 8 months? (I call it school, it's inhome care) and we have consistently payed 150.00 a week (25.00 a day) since he is now potty trained - it's 125 a week. She provides everything (art supplies, food, etc.).
Hope this helps!
Carrie.

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G.B.

answers from Oklahoma City on

The only thing you can do is call your local child care licensing office and ask how to go about finding out the going rate for in home child care.

Here are some links to child care regulations for Indiana. It appears she can watch up to 5 children without a license.

"Current Indiana law allows multiple exemptions
from licensure. Indiana is one (1) of only four (4)
states in the country which allow child care to be
provided to 5 or less unrelated children without
requiring licensure. Other exemptions are allowed
by statute under IC 12-17.2-2-8."
Quote from:
http://www.state.in.us/fssa/files/BCC-Annual-Report-2006.pdf

http://www.daycare.com/indiana/
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Here are the child care reports for Carroll county the last year and how much providers got per day.
http://www.in.gov/fssa/files/ccdfmrCarroll.pdf
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If you are going back to work and are having a hard time paying for child care then you may qualify for assistance paying for child care. It really sucks when you go to work to help support your family and then have to pay out over 50% for child care. If you are making minimum wage or even just a bit more you can really expect child care to be about 50% or more of your income. For 2 children it may be even more of a percent.
http://www.in.gov/fssa/files/ccdfmrCarroll.pdf

Here's a link to find out how to apply for child care assistance.
http://www.in.gov/fssa/carefinder/3900.htm

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