R.Y.
Can you do a little research online and find out more about epilepsy, especially what to do if he has a seizure? You seem very afraid of it and more information would probably help you put things in perspective. Maybe you could even ask your questions to your husband's doctor (I am guessing he sees a neurologist for medication). I have known a few people with epilepsy including one close friend. She had some trouble controlling the seizures and did not drive but otherwise had a pretty normal life. She said stress and lack of sleep tended to make her seizures worse and when she kept a regular schedule she did better.