J.H.
Hi S.! My son just spent the last few days getting molars and he was miserable as well! He got a bit dehydrated too; he wouldn't eat or drink much. We did the Tylenol (fever of over 102) and Baby Orajel. I also gave him sugar free popsicles (he loved it) and tried to get him to drink Pedialyte. He would drink a bit of things if they were REALLY cold; I think that helped the pain. He didnt' particularly want his frozen teething ring, but he did use it a bit off and on. I would suggest the Orajel and popsicles!! Good luck! I feel for you!
J.