L.A.
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We got the Nojo pillow from Babies R Us for our daughter as her first pillow. I think it was from Babies R Us- it is flatter than most pillows and comes with a silky pillowcase if I remember correctly. I don't remember it being too expensive either. She loved it and still keeps it on her bed.
And I love your description of you- it helps us remember how special our kids are and how lucky we are to be parents!