N.L.
Hey J.!
I'm in the same boat as youo. I hae a 13 month old son, Beckham, and expecting our 2nd in April. Life has been very interesting and challenging just preparing for another little one!
Unfortunately, I'm a small person and have not found a sling that would work for me. However, I'm have been on a mission for a tandem stroller for several months. I have the added challenge of having a small truck and many of the strollers out there don't collaspe small enough. If this is an issue I would check out Combi strollers ($149-199.00) or Phil & Ted Sport ($399-$460.00) the ladder is more expensive but it is remarkably sturdy and breaks down so easily! Since buying another car wasn't an option we went ahead and shelled out the $ for this one. The only store in town to carry both strollers in store is USA baby off of Sand lake. What is nice is the carry all the other products Babiesrus doesn't and you can ck things out for yourself.
Also, I got my pappason chair from target-their great but my son grew out of it so fast. A great place to look for stuff is Craigslist and very cheap!
I hope this was helpful. Stay in touch!
N.