Hi R.,
I'm sorry that you are uncomfortable, but it will all be over VERY soon! How exciting! I definitely think that you are experiencing ligament pain from your pelvis relaxing, as your doctor suggested. This is very common and it is true that after you give birth it should be better, as the hormone that is causing the overstretched ligaments will be reduced back to normal levels. I am a physical therapist, so I have worked with a number of people who have shared your pain and I have actually dealt with it myself during my recent pregnancy, so I know how uncomfortable you must be. A couple of suggestions that I can make that might be helpful are to get into the pool! Swimming in the water will help you to unweight your body and feels really good. A pregnancy support belt was also very helpful for me, as it also unweights your belly and gives your ligaments a break from being strethed by the added weight. Another suggestion that might work for you. Try doing pelvic tilts (between 50 and 100 a night)- (preferably on all-fours, but sitting or lying will work, it just takes a bit longer to get the results...) That strengthens the back and abdominal muscles, which will help relieve the pressure on the ligaments. Also, when you are walking, try to periodically hold your abdominal muscles tight to support the weight of the uterus. Although I have not read it myself, I have heard that a good book is "Essential Exercises for the Childbearing Year" by Elizabeth Noble. One other suggestion I have is to have a significant other lace his fingers together and place them under your belly. (make SURE that you have emptied her bladder prior to trying this! :D) Then have him GENTLY and SLOWLY lift up, not in, but up and hold for a few seconds and then gently release. This feels really good and makes you feel like you're not even pregnant (if only for a moment or two!). I hope these ideas help, I hope you feel better and I wish you all the happiness in the world with your baby to be!
B.