Hi T.,
You already have great advice from the other posters, but thought I’d share my experiences as well. I had gestational diabetes with both my pregnancies and had a great experience/no problems delivering in a traditional hospital environment. Like you, I was so frustrated and surprised because I was in good health with no family history of diabetes, so for me it was due to hormonal changes affecting my body. Luckily, my blood sugar was controlled by diet only and I didn’t have to inject myself with insulin. Both babies were born naturally with no interventions and were of average weights (my first was 7lbs, 7oz. and second was 6lbs, 8oz.). I understand your fear of being “strong armed” into a C-section. I told my OB I definitely wanted to avoid this, and she explained that if do my part with watching my carb intake and not going over my target blood levels and the baby is monitored carefully throughout the pregnancy for size, there really would be no need for a C-section if there are no other complications in play. She did explain, however, that if I didn’t have my baby by a week after the due date, she would be a little concerned and that I might have to be induced to avoid the risk of my baby getting bigger, (really depends on the baby's size around your due date). But with induced labors, there is always the risk that your body doesn’t respond properly which can result in a C-section after all, so I definitely did not want to be induced either, and was relieved when I went into labor by the due date for each baby.
Another thing, I had to get a second ultrasound about a month or so before the due date to monitor the size of the baby. I also had to get weekly non-stress tests a month prior to the due date to monitor the baby’s heart rate and movements. After my babies were born, they had to get a heel prick sample of blood to make sure their blood levels were okay, which they were.
So, if you’re getting all the necessary tests done and monitoring your blood level, I don’t see why there would be a problem delivering at home, just need to discuss this with your midwife of course.
My OB referred me to an endocrinologist whom I had to see once a month. I also had to meet once with a diabetes specialist to discuss using a monitor to check glucose levels. I also saw a dietician who explained that I was not to go past specific grams of carbs per meal, for example, breakfast couldn’t contain more than 23 grams of carbs (morning is when your body is least able to break down carbs), and my limit for lunch was 60 grams. I think this is calculated depending on your height and weight. She also went through some sample menu ideas. I could pretty much eat whatever I wanted, but I had to watch the total amount of carb intake for each meal, and make sure it was well-balanced (all food groups). The only things she recommended me staying away from were concentrated sweets, regular pop and to limit the juices. She stressed that I should never skip meals and that it was important for me to have a bedtime snack. If you’re already a healthy eater, I’m sure you can continue with what you usually cook, but you just have to start counting carbs and make sure all the food groups are still pretty much covered.
Good luck with everything and enjoy your pregnancy!!