HI there!!! I was in the the same bost as you when my daughter was first born. Here is what I have found that works.
1. When I put in 7oz of water how many scoops of formula do I put in? (guide is only for 2,4,6,8 oz)
For a 7 oz bottle use 3 1/2 scoops.
2. After I put in my 7oz of water and add my formula, why do I get 8.5 oz, and how much am I truly feeding my son? Is it 8.5oz or 7oz's??
He is still getting the needed 7oz. It is just how the formula works out.
Gripe Water Questions:
1. Can you mix the 1tsp of Gripe Water in with my son's 7oz bottle of formula?
I found that just using eye dropper and letting them suck the grip water from there works really well. I dosn't hurt to try it in his bottle either.
2. If no, is it best to give the Gripe Water before or after my son eat's?
You can give your son grip water either time, before or after feedings.
Rice Cereal Questions:
1. Why can't I mix Rice Cereal in with my son's formula when I feed him?
First off it depends how old he is. I did this with my daughter when she was about 5 months old, only to help her get through the night with out waking up. I also started my daughter feeding her rice cereal at 4 mo. once a day. Then at 5 mo I started to feed her rice ceral 2 a day. Then by 6 months I was feeding her 3 times aday with a fruit or veg mixed in with the cereal. So her schedule work out to be
Wake up - Bottle
9am Cereal w/fruit (jared baby food, pears, apple sauce etc.)
Nap 9:30a - 11a
11am - Bottle
12:30p Cereal w/Veg
Nap 1-3pm
Bottle-4pm
Cereal with fruit or veg - 4PM
Bottle 30 min before bed.
2. How much rice cereal do I give my son and do I feed him the Rice Cereal with every bottle? Or just certain meal times? In addition to his bottle or a separate meal all together? - I started off with 2-3 Tab of dry cereal then added formula or water when using fruit or veg.
Good luck I know that this can be hard. Please feel free to e-mail me with any questions.