We have 3 children and 1 on the way-w/all of our babies:At 5 mts-
Breakfast:breastmilk and/or formula (I supplemented)
and then they got more "milk" if they got fussy and needed a snack
Lunch:I would feed them about 1/2 a jar and then "milk"
and they could snack on me or the bottle throughout the day if they wanted it
Dinner:the rest of the jar that they didn't finish earlier and I would generally add some cereal/rice to that food so that they would stay full long enough through the night and then afterwards they would have me or the bottle...
Bed Time:me or the bottle and then they fall asleep
Our pediatrician says it's fine to feed them as much as they want to eat.......FACT about babies that age:they are not running on what we know to be GLUTTON-they're going on HUNGER SATISFACTION ;)...like another comment said: when they don't want any more, they'll turn their head away, they'll do the same w/ u or the bottle; turn head and let dribble from mouth.
BTW-NONE of my mine woke up in the middle of the night to feed;if they did, It was becaus ehtye were sick or wanted to be cuddled.....they just weren't hungry 'cause I "allowed" them to eat until they were content.....the only feedings that I ever put on a "schedule" were breakfast and dinner-and even those weren't exact times; just a generalization of the same time frame....my children have always been at a healthy weight and have never been hungry,unhappy or unhealthy.
MORAL- Let your baby "take the reigns"-they'll "tell" u when they're hungry or full
I also put cereal or rice in the bottle at night to help keep them fuller,longer.........my dr actually suggested that I do it,and they would fuss and want more if I missed a bedtime bottle w/out any "thickness"....we call it their milkshakes..lol
About the reflux-Ask ur doc about "Dewee's Carminative"...It's an antacid ecspecially for infants and u purchase it from the pharmacist...u don't need a prescription for it and it works WONDERS!!!!...If you can't find it at your local pharmacy, try online-humco.com- they r the manufacturers..........I live in a fairly big city(pharmacy practically on every corner)and they are always sold out!! I have to put my name on a list for it, so, whenever I see it behind the counter-I BUY IT!