Hi M.,
Your vaccine stance makes total sense -- I feel EXACTLY the same way. I will have my child get almost all the standard vaccines, but I'll delay the schedule a bit and won't do more than 2 at a time. I don't really think there's a right or wrong decision about the flu vaccine, though.
I will say both vaccines have now been approved by the FDA, so people can sue if anything goes wrong. Certainly must truly believe it is safe (though their belief is not a guarantee). Also, the H1N1 vaccine is new, but all flu vaccines are "new" every year -- they are made to address the strains expected to hit this year, using the same formula that's been used for decades.
However, I worry about everything during pregnancy and I don't particularly like the idea of truly extraneous vaccines. So I understand where you're coming from. If your baby will be born season, I think I'd get it because there is some evidence your vaccination will protect him/her as a newborn. Here's a website that cites some studies you may find helpful. Because the evidence seems to suggest it's safe (although it's always possible to have a bad reaction), I personally would probably get them this year if I were pregnant and having a baby in flu season. You have to do whatever you personally feel is best, though!
http://www.pamf.org/flu/preg.html