ADDED Feb 4th ************ - the meet and greet with the HealthEast Midwives is next Thursday, Feb 11th at 6:30 and at 7:30 at the Woodwinds campus, and on May 4th at St. Joe's. It says "Partners, friends and family are welcome. Call ###-###-#### to register. This is a free event".
Having delivered both of my babes at Woodwinds, I can tell you that it is a great experience. However, you still need to be your own health advocate and not rely on their niceness. HealthEast CNM's deliver at both hospitals, and I forget which St. does not have waterbirth. Either Joseph's or John's doesn't, and I can never remember which one. As far as specific ladies, I think they are having a meet and greet sometime this month. Although they prefer that you see one in particular throughout your pregnancy, they rotate on an on-call system for deliveries so it is more than likely that who you saw will not help you welcome baby in the world. But, if you are having 'issues' with the on call MW, there always is a backup, so you can request her. In my second birth plan, I had it clearly stated that if we felt that someone was not participating in the best of my interest, or just in general being unpleasant that they would asked to be removed from my care.
I only had 2 CNM's that I didn't quite care for, Mary - and I think mainly because my first birth didn't go as planned and I wasn't educated on the natural options for inducing labor so I had a medically induced labor/ birth. She just may be the fall out of a bad birth experience. And M. - she is a very 'in my box' type of caregiver - my 2nd birth was mainly mentally delayed by 24 hours and after being at WW's for 12 hours and not much progression she said that if we stayed, they would admit me and would need to start augmenting labor - but since I was still under 4 cm I went home again.
Sorry for the length, feel free to pm me if you would like! Good luck! Oh, and WW's is also very welcoming of having a birth photographer come in and document your labor and birth. :)