Not exactly what you asked, but i would just caution you to be realistic about the Holidays, we all want it to be Hallmark, but sometimes the more you take on and try to do and feel expected to do, the harder it is to be happy and calm and ENjoy it.
Our new tradition is Daddy reading the christmas story before we open presents Christmas morning,
We ended up having a tradition of baking/frosting cookies with my aunt and my grandma the sat before christmas.
when i was little, we always had Christmas dinner with relatives Christmas eve, exchanged gifts with them, went up to 7pm candle lit church service, went home exhausted, then had our own christmas at home on Christmas day. My favorite memory was cuddling in the truck singing christmas carols with the radio on our way to dinner.
So, i'm sure that wasn't something anyone planned but It meant the most to me. Just roll with it, you'll find some traditions work and feel right to you and your family and some won't and sometimes you'll need to adapt and change them.
Flylady.net has a "holiday control JOurnal" basicaly a list of things to help you stay organized through out the holidays and often people share their traditions. you might want to check it out.
Happy HOlidays and Congrats on the new little one. My two are spaced about that far apart and It was nuts at first, now i love it.