D.P.
I'm so sorry! I think I know what she's going through. I had a scleral buckle stitched around my eye at age 30 after multiple retinal detachments. My eye had to be "extracted" from the socket to do that, and of course, the muscles were stretched to the max for that to be done. I was afraid to open my eye at the doc office when the bandages were removed the following day - I thought opening it would be painful, but it wasn't. Recovery was *really* uncomfortable for about a week - ANY movement of the eye muscles nearly brough me to tears. It hurt to read a book (tiny eye movements back and forth); I had to move my head each time I wanted to look at something new. It was easier to keep my eyes closed than try to remember not to swivel them to look at something.
I used a sack of peas in a thin dishcloth as an "ice pack" (my dad bought peas and carrots as a replacement - but the square cut carrots have pointy corners! ouch!) I also had vicodin for the first few days. Are you alternating tylenol and ibuprofen for the pain?
Can you get books on tape/DVD for entertainment? A new movie that she watches from across the room (no eye movement necessary).
Please keep me posted on her recovery - I'll be thinking about her!
~ D.