Added: I too H. think you're treating this kind of like the band-aid approach. We did the same when my oldest was going through what you are. It's very frustrating because you're treating each symptoms - not the route of the problem.
Things get missed when you go from one specialist to another and back in for one cold after another. You need to write it all down, and talk to your pediatrician.
Every mom I know these days has been told the same thing - asthmatic after colds. In fact, at camps, they say so many kids have that included on their registration forms. I honestly think it's just something they tell parents know when they don't have a clue. I'm sure some really have this - but I think often it's just an unknown.
I'm not an expert - I suspect it's likely allergies your son has (you mentioned earlier they said he had some). My son didn't have any show up at age 5 - it wasn't until he was 9 that they all showed up - but he definitely had symptoms well before that. So I made the changes to our house. No carpet. Our cat died and we saw huge improvement in his health. Air purifier in his room, etc. We also saw ENT. It was really ENT and our allergist who helped our son. The doctors treating his asthmatic attacks were the ones treating the breathing - but not the cause.
Good luck :)
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Well with any OTC I wait and see how they are doing in the morning and after breakfast before deciding if they need more meds. If it were me, and my kid could clear the phlegm on his own (remember sometimes they swallow it - they don't always have to spit it out) - I wouldn't.
One thing I do is before I leave the doctor's office, is to pepper them with questions. I'll ask "What do I do if by Sunday they aren't better?" kind of thing. That way you aren't trying to figure out your plan as you say. They should be telling you this. If they aren't - ask.
Coughs can last quite a while - I hope he feels better soon