J.B.
S.,
I would recommend you talk to a local lactation consultant. If you don't know one, then just call the hospital where you will be delivering and ask for that department. You can ask her if she knows if Effexor is safe for breastfeeding. If it is then talk to your OB about the REAL safety issues with Effexor during pregnancy. Those sheets that you get from the pharmacy can really scare the pants off you for no good reason. You can ask your doctor if you can look at the "PDR" information on Effexor and see exactly what the issue is with pregnancy. It may just be that they don't have any good studies or that 1 person in 100,000 had problems. Do not stop taking the medicine without talking to your doctor first. He may be able to put you on another med short-term to deal with the withdrawl symptoms. It's okay to treat your depression. If you have a history of depression you may be prone to pretty bad post-partum depression. I think it's best for the kids to have a Mommy who doesn't cry everyday even if they have to be on formula. I am sorry to hear that you are so stressed about this. Just try to approach it systematically, one step at a time to make an informed decision. Good luck. I've been there too.