hi E.,
chances are, your son's ears aren't clearing the fluid completely from one infection to the next. or, if they are, he's just more prone. make this blend of essential oils:
10 drops douglas fir
5 drops eucalyptus radiata (not globulus)
5 drops magnolia flower
mix into 1 oz. sweet almond oil for your base.
apply to the following acupoints:
LI4: the highest point of the bulge of muscle on the dorsum of your hand formed when you squeeze the thumb to the index finger. so you're on the dorsum of the hand, between the 1st and 2nd metacarpal bones, approximately in the middle of the 2nd metacarpal bone. this is the master point for the head, most ppl know it as the "headache" point.
Lu3: on the medial aspect of the upper arm, 3 thumb-widths (your son's thumb) below the end of the armpit fold, on the radial side of the biceps muscle. the point lies between the biceps and the humerus bone. this point allows us to let go.
Du23: the midpoint of 1 thumb-width into your son's hairline just above his forehead. again, your son's thumb is the measurement for his body. this allows for draining downward.
massage a drop or 2 of the mixture into each of the spots twice daily, 3 days on, 3 days off (so in 3 days he should get 6 treatments and then he goes without treatment for 3 days) for 18 days total. note, LI4 and Lu3 are bilateral. only Du23 has 1 single point on the midline of the hairline.
my son just had back to back ear infections and i asked his pediatrician in many different ways about how to drain the fluid from the ears... the basic response was you either don't drain the fluid and just wait til the fluid gets infected or you put in these tubes. this is when i went to see my chinese herbalist (a master) in chinatown and he prescribed that formula above. it worked like a charm!
like the other responses, i also agree to get a strong probiotic (one that has 10-12 billion count... jarro makes a good one). you should also use florastor which promotes good yeast growth to keep "bad" bacteria in check. after my son was on 2 rounds of antibiotics (ugh!!) he came down with claustridium difficile infection... basically, it's a bacteria that exists in some ppl's guts but bcs there are other good bacteria to keep it in check you don't get symptoms of toxicity of c.diff. but since he was on all those antibiotics, the good bacteria was abolished, leaving c. diff to flourish. my son had terrible cramps and diarrhea for a week. the western treatment for c. diff is yet another antibiotic which, for obvious reasons, did not appeal to me. so my husband and i are aggressively treating the infection with probiotics and he's been diarrhea free for 5 days.
lastly, keep him off dairy for now: no cow's or goat's milk, no cheese. yogurt is different. substitute unsweetened almond milk until he gets through this and clear's up. "almond breeze" makes an unsweetened almond milk. keep sweets out of his diet as much as possible, they produce more fluids (dampness) in the body.
good luck!
K.