J.M.
Just wanted to echo the suggestion for acupuncture. I can't quite remember the research, but it was remarkable -- something like a 40% increase in success rates. The research suggested that limited acupuncture could be effective, meaning care right before and, I believe, right after. Google acupuncture IVF research and you'll get some good citations.
As I recall, this is really the only research-based intervention worthwhile.
It is amazing how quickly memories of IVF fade! I have a 6 year old and a 9 month old, both through IVF. I don't remember how long I was sore after!
My very best wishes to you -- I know what you are going through is very, very challenging! I'll cross my fingers for you too :)
J.