Suze Orman rocks!!! All women need to watch her and listen to her advice!!!
You cannot think about college savings now, you have to spend within your means and get rid of the cc debt first. Then save, save, save! This will be really hard, and you must be committed to setting a strict budget...this will take awhile, but will be worth it! Also watch Clark Howard, he has great advice too!!! You can do this!!! Good Luck!
I am also single, without any support. Suze has helped me learn and grow financially! I have spent within my means, and only spend on what is needed, not what I wanted or the kids wanted. I have two jobs and now just starting to build up my saving account again for home improvements and an 8 month emergency account. I own my home outright, SUV is paid in full, no cc debt,-and I am now debt free! As for my children-college is a personal choice. If they want to go, they have to earn money for classes-this teaches children responsibilities-no free rides here... BOTH of my sons do not take out financial aid or student loans, are both in good jobs, going to college part time-and are debt free also.
Too many people I know who went to college; have nothing but $170+ in debt, anguish, and no high paying job to show for it...