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A girl friend of mine was pregnant with her 2nd child. They wanted to find out, but didn't want to know until the entire family found out. Here's what they did . . . she went to the Dr. for the ultrasound, the technician wrote the sex of the baby on a piece of paper and sealed it in an envelope. My friend had planned a dinner party for that weekend and decided that would be when they all found out the sex. She took the envelope to a bakery and told them to use white cake mix and color it based on what the sex of the baby was in the envelope. They iced it with white frosting. This way the entire family (including my girlfriend) found out the sex of the baby when they cut the cake.