A.,
I have found great pictures and videos on the internet. Type in "How to Crochet"... and you'll get a ton. All of the yarn brands have a site, and Youtube is awesome.
If you are close to the Mansfield area I would be glad to meet with you somewhere and give you a mini-lesson. I ran into a lady once in Michael's looking at "how to" books. We sat in the floor (in the isle) and I taught her the three basic stitches (and started her a hat) in less than 20 min. I would not charge you anything as long as you promise to learn well and teach at least two more people. :-)
In fact I would LOVE to get a group of ladies together once or twice a week for Crochet/fellowship. We're new to the area and I don't really know a lot of people.
I teach crochet afterschool to kids 7-12. I had so many sign up (85) that I had to split them into 4 days... LOL... I've taught several of our teachers the basics standing in the hallway doing morning duty, or walking the hall during Bus duty.
It's really not as hard as many make it in their mind. Just stay relaxed and don't allow yourself to get frustrated. Broken down, each hand has about six different little jobs that it has to coordinate. That takes a little time, and a LOT of repetition. AND, don't worry which hand is dominate. I am left handed, but I crochet right by choice. I CAN switch and crochet with my left if I need to... It's a matter of your BRAIN learning all the little jobs and sending the right messages to the hands. Just take it easy and keep working on it.
I prefer to teach my kids (and my adults...LOL) to make a hat for their first project because you can use all the basics and come out with a finished product fairly quickly, that's useful and attractive. I, personally, do not like them to start with a scarf because it's harder for them to learn to turn and make the edges straight, and that's just ONE more thing to frustrate them.
Start with a worsted weight yarn. Red Heart SuperSaver is the cheapest and the BEST (HANDS DOWN) to learn on. It's not as soft and cuddly as most of the other brands, but it's not going to get stuck on it's own fuzzies either. It's relatively easy to untangle if the worst happens, and softens nicely after a few washings. I like to have my students start with a size I Hook. It's a medium size hook that makes a nice project, but the stitches are spaced so that you can SEE where to put your hook.
Good Luck! You can DO IT!! :-)
Now, If I could just learn to Knit. <sigh>
T.