The Bob is a great stroller, so is Dreamer Design. I have a double and have had both brands. We sold the bob b/c it was so much bigger and took up every square inch of the back of the car.
BEST car seat is SUnshine Kids. I don't know for infant use, but it is the only seat that is designed to be 3 in a row, it's top notch for safety, narrow, so it doesn't overwhelm your back seat, and the only seat that offers 5 point harness for your child as they grow. THere is a 65 pound limit one and an 85 pound one. My almost 5 year old is 98% for height and weight - coming in at about 45 lbs. She is a stringbean - and while her classmates are in booster seats - none of my research indicated that this was a safe choice. That was how I discovered this company. It also folds up for travel use.
I strongly recommend a great sling. Baby wearing is awesome!
Ergo's will get you through all stages, but it's nice to have one better designed for those first 6 months. I suggest a Maya wrap, or Moby (although a moby can be made easily - since it's just a giant piece of jersey)
(All these companies sell organic)
If you have time, don't be afraid to shop craigslist for used anything.
The Boon bowl has become a god-send for feedings. Suction that works, catch flip for spills, and BPA free.
Cloth diapering is not nearly as challenging as you might fear. Bumgenuis and Happy Heiney are our diapers of choice.
Congratulations and best of luck to you!