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I have two children both with Asthma - one is 3 1/2 and the other is 11 months. In addition to your pediatrician, get a referral to a pediatric pulmonoligist. Together, they and you, will develop the best care plan for your children based on their triggers and symptoms.
When my older son was first diagnosed (officially at 2 yrs old), I went to sites such as American Lung Association (www.ala.org), they have a wealth of information. I also joined www.everydaykidz.com offered through one of the leading products, pulmicort. They don't try to sell their products but provide a lot of helpful information such as developing an asthma action plan, what to do during high season, etc. Lastly, I joined Mothers of Asthmatics and have found their website and newsletter to be a good resource as well. If you want their website information, send me a note. I have it marked as a favorite on my office computer.
In terms of our story, ironically, there was no trace of asthmatics on either side so this came as a total surprise. My little guy was just sick ALL the time even though he was at home and rarely exposed to all the germs that are in a daycare environment. His symptoms included coughing, weezing, and he would severly scratch at his neck until it bled. Not being aware of the signs, we were simply frustrated and couldn't understand why he would never get better. At 18 months, after a terrible cold, weezing, and blue lips, his 'then' pediatrician finally recommended a nebulizer -- duh. At 2, his now pediatrician officially said he had asthma. My fear, however, is that so much damage and exposure to his lungs will now make him an asthmatic for life. Hopefully not. In any event, after getting past the shock, we've learned to live and manage it very well. His asthma is typically shows up when he has a cold. He uses a maintenance medication 2x day -- pulmicort. This enables him to keep up with his little playmates and we work hard so he doesn't feel different - which to me is very important.
Best of luck. Please reach out to me if you have questions or want the website for Mothers of Asthmatics. --A.