I wouldn't give up on your kiddo just yet. At 36 weeks my 2nd son was breech and my MD gave me a week and a half to turn him myself before we tried version and then a C-section if that didn't work. So for the next week, I tried LOTS with my doula...sitting upside-down (which made me REALLY dizzy), having people talk at the bottom of my belly, ice pack at the top of my belly with warm pack at the bottom (they don't like the cold so turn away from it- got him to go transverse that way), using a flashlight to "direct" the way down...the only things I didn't get to try was the chiropractor, diving into a swimming pool and doing somersaults in the water and the hypnobabies "turn the baby" track. As a last attempt the night before my last ultrasound and appointment before trying version, I told my hubby...you need to take control of this baby and tell him to turn around in your "daddy" voice...so my hubby says "M__, listen here...this is your daddy and I expect you to turn head down" and then he "spanked" where his bottom was. We all laughed and went to bed...well sure enough, that kid turned (didn't feel him or anything...just went in to have the u/s and was sad because I was sure he was still head up, but the u/s tech says...nope, that's a head!!!!!!!!). And I was SO relieved. And on top of that, I got to deliver my son as a VBAC (vaginal birth after C-section- yes, my first son was C-section- just a regular C-section...not an emergency or anything)!!!
My recovery was MUCH quicker than my c-section (just remember, that it is major abdominal surgery and is not all peaches and cream- and no, you don't get a flat stomach from c-section versus vaginal...I had to laugh at that one)- although I won't lie to you...whether you deliver vaginally or c-section...day 2 SUCKS...but each day after gets better and better!!! To answer your question, yes it should help if they get the baby turned, but if this is your first baby, you could easily end up going to 40-42 weeks either way...so if vaginal is what you want and they get him turned, avoid talking induction until AT LEAST 41 weeks (know it's hard at that point, but it will be well worth it)...my VBAC came at 40 weeks 3 days!
If I ever get pregnant again (and I hope I do) and having had both a vaginal birth (VBAC) and a c-section, I would 100% go for the V2BAC!!! Recovery difference for me (from delievery to feeling almost 100%) was probably 2 weeks VBAC (with a 2nd degree tear and stitches that never fully dissolved so had to go get them removed...think prob would have been 1 week if the stitches would have dissolved) versus 8-10 weeks with my C-section. Also remember that with a c-section, you are reliant on someone else for far longer because you are not supposed to drive by yourself until about 6 weeks and you really shouldn't carry the heavy baby carrier until then or later either! Good luck with your birth. I hope your baby turns on its own!
S.