Bad Sleep Routine

Updated on June 11, 2007
C.S. asks from Waterbury, CT
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My 9 month old was sleeping through the night, most nights, until a few weeks ago. She started waking up between 2-3am, feeding, and then going back to sleep. This has become a routine for us, and I dont like it one bit.
She eats 3 solid meals a day, consisting of at least a jar of stage 2 or stage 3 baby food, and a piece of toast, or other pick-up foods. I feed her until she pushes the spoon away. She nurses throughout the day probably about 5 or 6 times.
She goes to sleep about 10:00ish. I would put her down earlier, but my toddler and her share a bedroom and he has to fall asleep before I bring her in.
I've tried ignoring her in the middle of the night, but that doesnt work, she just continues to scream. I know she is hungry because she will nurse on both sides. Its not like she sucks a few times and passes out...The girl is hungry. She is only in the 15th percentile for her weight, so I dont want to do anything that will cause her to lose any weight.
I'm wondering if she is just growing and thats why she needs the extra calories. I've tried nursing her more during the day, but she refuses. And she doesnt get a bottle. I've eliminated juice from her diet. So, she isnt filling up on empty calories.
I just cant stand this new routine. Any suggestions? Anything you can think of that I havent tried yet??
THANKS!

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So What Happened?

I should probably knock on some wood, but the last two nights she has slept from 10:00pm - 7:30am. I feel recharged! :) Perhaps her growth spurt is over? I havent done anything different. Children keep us guessing! Thanks for the support! :)

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D.B.

answers from New York on

she might be teething and also remember that breast milk its soooo light, so her stomach right around this age is well developed to start eating solid, therefor she feels the need of waking up in the middle of the night! Also what i used to do with my 13 months old baby, is that i would give her water instead of milk because remember that babies can get cavity at such young age because of the sweetness of the milk! so watch out with that! Don't ignore your child, remember that crying is their only way of communicating! I breastfed my child until she was 4 months because i had to start a treatment, and today i see the miracle of breastfeeding, my baby doesnt even get sick thank God, but yeah...you have to start switching milk and solid food...the Dr. will tell you so pretty soon...good luck

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D.K.

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Crystal,

I am sorry to say that this new routinue might be going on of a while. When do you nurse her last? When does she get her last "meal"...maybe a piece of fruit...or a bitter biscut would help. My son was a big baby (9lbs 13 oz) so he got up every 2 hours or so. He was ALWAYS hungry (he still is a grazer...almost 5). I hope it is a growth spirt...it sounds like it could be time. {{HUGS}} to you. It isn't easy. You are doing all the "right" things. Hopefully this will be a short phase.

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Q.F.

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i would say it's a growth spurt she's going through if she nurses on BOTH sides. there's really nothing that you can do about it, she needs to eat more often, not just more. the only thing i can tell you is what everyone told me, pick 1 nap time that she (and hopefully your son) take and take one with them this way you're not so exhausted from being woken up at night. and don't worry it passes, then she'll completely change to another (sometimes annoying also) sleep routine. my daughter is 14 months, and has gone through at least 5 different sleeping patterns since she was born. unfortunately, very rarely sleeping through the night EVER. good luck, and try to get some rest during the day, it will help a little bit.

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C.S.

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Hi Crystal

Maybe your baby is going through a growth spur and she needs the extra calories. I would suggest giving her some snaks through out the day, e.g. some fruits, vegetables, dry cereal or any solids she likes. Since your baby still under 1 year, I would continue to breastfeed on demand. Babies know how to regulate their calorie intake; and it doesn't sound like your baby is just breastfeeding for comfort but it seems that she is actually hungry.

My youngest son who is now 13 months also had a period when he would wake up to feed in the middle of the night around nine months. It only lasted about 1-2 weeks and he went back to sleeping through the night once he got the extra calories during the day.

Good luck,
C.

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N.F.

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Hi, We have a 23 month old girl and she went through the same thing. This is a growth spurt, go with it. Your baby is hungry otherwise she would stay asleep. It won't last long. Good Luck

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G.D.

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Water is a good appetite supressant. Maybe give her more water in a sippy cup. I still get up at least twice a night to nurse my 12 month old, but she never slept through the night so I am used to it.

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