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I loved a backpack style diaper bag that had some compartments for everything including clothing changes and toys. It doesn't sound like this is in your budget, but maybe if a few people wanted to chip in, my favorite present was housekeeping. Of course, I'm not a picky housekeeper, so having someone come in and see my mess and clean it did not bother me, I did not "clean" before the housekeeper came. I also loved the people who gave me gift certificates for my local pizza place and Chinese takeout for the hectic nights.