You're right....there is so much baby gear out there & it's over-whelming. I suggest you get the basics at first, crib, stroller, carseat & bouncer cuz really, the first few weeks, the baby is held most of the time plus all that gear takes up a lot of space & eats away at your bank account. And then, you could spend a boat load on the most hi-end product & find you baby hates it! Then what do ya do? Maybe a friend has some stuff you could try out, see if you & baby both like & then either continue to borrow or buy. That said, with our first son, I didn't do any background investigating on pac-n-plays & chose the one I did cuz people were blocking the aisle & I liked its colors. WRONG way to choose it! It was made by Baby Trend & HORRIBLE! Heavy & awkward to close. Second time around I got a no frills Graco. My mom has a Graco at her house which is why I choose it. It's VERY easy to open & collapse, it's pretty light-weight & easy to carry plus the one we got had the mattress that could be raised for when the baby is a newborn. Some pac-n-plays do this but only as a small bassinet (like our 1st one) while the other side is the changing table part. With our Graco, the whole mattress raised up & then, if we wanted, we could attach the changing table part but never needed to. I found the mattress to be just the right amount of firmness. We had our younger son in it for almost 6 months in our room, until he was solidily sleeping thru the night & could move into the big crib to share a room w/his brother. After that, we used itas a playpen & moved it around the house so we could keep him contained. It was very easy to move around. We used an Eddie Bauer one at my SIL's that she borrowed from a friend & HATED that one, too. Hard to open & close & VERY heavy. So, skip Eveflos, Baby Trends & Eddie Bauers & go for Graco. In general, I think Graco makes great, reliable, reasonably-priced baby equipment & they have a big selection. Hope this helps & good luck in May!