Hi B.
Congrats on your family! The fun is just starting!
I have been an attachment parent since Day one- I wore my boy everywhere and I believe that is is exceptional because of our parenting choices. I used the BJorn sometimes but mostly used something I cannot think of the name right now! ARG! Maybe as I type-you might also check out Dr Sears website-the original literature on baby wearing came from him. When I started it I didn't know it had a name or anything like it until I had been co-sleeping and baby wearing for 6 months. But whatever you do do it will be what's best for you and your baby
I tried to look it up and it's not coming to me. I don't know if it was the BEST but it was the one I was recommended in my nursing class http://www.slingbaby.com/fabrics.htm ok I am not totally brain dead!
Wow-you are ready to have that baby-have you tried anyone who does massage to help Caleb out?
Congrats again!
B.