S.H.
The don't have it formally pinned down yet.
PDD NOS can mean, that they don't know what it is specifically... but that there is some kind of a developmental issue.
They will say NOS for a GREAT variety of things... because it is just that... not otherwise specified. Not clear cut. Not cookie cutter specific. Does not exactly match any "DSM" (ie: Diagnostic & Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) categories. And, PDD NOS is also used because, no 2 children... are exactly alike, even if having the same issues. Or to look at it another way.. it may mean simply that your child does not meet the 'classic' criteria for blatantly 'diagnosing' him one way or the other.
My friend's son for example... is sort of different and marches to his own drumbeat... he is not "anything" really, not Autistic, not Asperger's , not additional ADD or ADHD, not anything succinctly matching any behavioral profile verbatim... but he is a bit... different... and not like other kids in certain developmental aspects... and, he does need an Aide in class. But they (the Professionals) say that whatever it is.. he is very high functioning... they just cannot TOTALLY say he matches any behavioral "problem" or profile exactly. But... he is "borderline" on some kind of spectrum.
Thus the PDD and NOS... designation... at least for now.
They are probably sending you to other specialists for developmental assessments, I assume? Then, based on that... there is then a 'diagnosis' made.
At least this is what I have seen.
all the best,
Susan