J.R.
B., I don't have personal experience, but you should do whatever you think is best. Another person said that all shows are different - I think there are a lot of shows that sensationalize real problems... like spoiled kids. Then there are shows that really try to offer solutions. I think whether or not you should go really depends on what you want to get out of it.
Do you want help with your daughter's behavior, or are you fine with being entertainment? No judgment at all from me, just a question you might want to ask yourself.
Personally, I think Montel has his moments. There are times when he can be incredibly sensitive, but there are times when he could probably give Jerry Springer a run for his money!
If you are looking for help with behavior & still want to go on a talk show, I'd suggest a Dr. Phil-type. If you think it would be kind of fun to go on TV & aren't looking for a whole lot of tips for changing behavior, then go for Montell or a similar.
Be real about it going into it though - these shows are for entertainment and shock value. They are going to paint your daughter in the most horrible of lights, show her at her most terrible moments & likely hold you up as the entire reason she's spoiled. At some point, you will probably look like an idiot... no matter what you say or do during the taping... that's just the magic of editing & the allure of "good TV."
Good luck!
J.
Mom to Chase (3)