Hi J.---I agree with the other posts. It was a shock to me to learn how bad cows milk can actually be for a human. My whole family used to drink gallons every week. But because of potential health risks, which includes everything from allergies and Type 1 diabetes to cancer froom too much animal protein. Go to www.strongbones.org and read The China Study to learn more.
I use almond milk for myself. It has less carb in it than rice, although that would probably be desired for a little one. I don't drink any milk, plant or otherwise, any longer. I use it mostly for smoothies and/or cold cereal. Be sure that soy is organic as much of the soy produced these days is genetically modified.
Then be sure your daughter gets plenty of leafy green veggies. She'll get all the calcium she needs from them. It is more absorbable than that found in milk.
Isolated, multi-vitamin supplements don't work very well either, unless it is food based. Multi's are not absorbed well as they lack most of the smaller nutrients needed for maximum absorption. Some are downright dangerous, as they have ingredients in them not listed on the label or they don't have the nutrients in the vitamin that is listed. Some even have lead in them. I do have several articles and some info I can share with you about this subject.
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