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I am mildly bi-polar and very much unmedicated. I believe in meds when they are useful...my hubby is on them for life, for a chemical imbalance in his brain that causes bouts of jekyll and hyde depression. However, I found a maintenance for me that works wonders and improves my hubby ten fold.
Exercise.
Whole foods.
It's amazing. We stopped working out because I got sick and never went back. And we are paying for it dearly, getting ourselves back into the routine. But we feel both mentally and physically 100 times better than when we don't. You don't have to be fancy and go to a gym. You can work out at home. I like the earth flow series yoga and the beachbody turbo jam program. I usually stick to the cardio because it's what makes me sweat the most. If I do go to the gym, I spend my first 35 minutes on the eliptical and then do some free weights, etc.
As far as diet, I have found that refined sugar is my worst enemy. I LOVE bread, but luckily I am a salt and candies and sweets don't necessary tempt me regularly. But bread you have to be careful with, too. Use it sparingly. Or on a seriously crunchy sandwich.
Foods: stick with things that are fresh: fruits (berries are in season right now and amazing), nuts-unroasted and unsalted, fresh veggies--carrots, cauliflower, broccoli--become friends with the spinach and pear salad (or use strawberries or cranberries, add a few bits of feta and a vinaigrette dressing and ta-dah!)....for snacks, stick with things like granola, yobaby or yo-toddler yogurt (far less sugars), the mini bags of popcorn, etc. snack baggies are your best friend now. If you like sandwiches, make sure to use lettuce and tomatoes, sprouts if you like them...mash some avocado on them...use meats that are either home cooked or on the label are as natural and chemical/nitrate/natural flavoring free as possible.Alot of those things interfere with healthy brain function. If you eat meat at dinner, try not to have it during the day. your body can only process 4 oz tops per day. The rest is waste. If you eat pasta, limit it and add loads of veggies, fresh or steamed, to fill in the gaps. If you must do dessert, try switching yourself to fruit...or limit things like ice cream to one night a week. You will begin to feel the difference when you have it verses not, and really--while small amounts of sugar may go unnoticed, they will eventually make a huge difference.
Take a multi vitamin for women.
Drink loads of water--but don't go overboard.
If you must have caffeine, drink black tea and limit your coffee to the morning cup. I would say green tea, but it does funny things to me mentally--though I LOVE the flavor. Black doesn't seem to bother me. Steer clear of all sodas, regardless. The only way to eat natural sugars is to eat it in the food it comes in. Like fruit. Also, steer clear of juice. If you wouldn't eat 5 apples in one sitting, you shouldn't drink a whole glass of juice.
Now the deal here, for those of us who aren't perfect and can't follow the letter of the law every day (lol), minor changes and hiccups are okay. For a birthday, it's okay to have a slice of cake. For a night out, eat the bowl of pasta or have the pizza and hot wings. The key is that you will need to really learn the ins and outs of your body both physically and mentally. I can tell that when I have had a soda, my body swells ever so slightly--or if I have something too salty, my ring doesn't fit right. Your body is so sensitive, but through fast food and over stimulation, terrible habits and the deadening of our senses, we have lost the ability to feel it. Start over, it will be a little bumpy at first and seem like it's going to take a miracle, but your mental health is worth every heart wrenching moment. You deserve a good life.
These changes, as well as medication, don't mean that you will never have another issue again, it just means you will feel it when it's coming and be able to prepare yourself. Mine feels like a roller coaster hanging on the top of the track, getting ready to plunge down without the fun spirals and loop de loops. And the pull on your body as you come out of if before the relief hits is so draining. But it can be less, and just like any lifestyle change or exercise program, there is no quick fix. The hard way is not only the best way, but it will produce long lasting, worth while results.
All of these changes are things that it has taken me a long time to make in myself, and when I follow through, I see results and it is so worth it.
I may, someday, need a slight medication to supplement, but it will be so minor in comparison to the heavy dosage the doctor would insist on if I were not to keep myself in check through diet and exercise. You may have the same need. I say don't rule out meds, but DO try the natural way--and maybe see an herbalist--a certified one-- to get a few tips.
Good luck! You can do it.