Hi C., first let me start by telling you that i'm not yelling,i always type in all caps. I have a nerve condition and it just makes it easier to type!with that said, i have extremely curly med/to dark brown hair and one year i decided to dye it blonde!whew!!any who, i have a friend that is a beautian(spell)and she had several suggestions and i tried them all over the course of several weeks so i'm not really sure which one worked,but i'll tell them to you and you can decided for yourself!
All of these involve wetting a towel and microwaving it until it's as hot as you can possible stand it! First of all mayonayse,just get a jar and rub it into your hair and then apply the hot towel and leave it on until it is cold.then rinse your hair.and do not wash... Condition with a good conditioner!(not that i'm a spokeswoman or anything but i use pantene pro-v for dyed hair,cause i have to wash that gray out occassionally!!hehe!!)the next one is to get a good hand lotion,anything that you can pour into your hands easily for just like above you have to repeat that process!!rub lotion all over hair and apply wet hot towel and leave on until it is cold! And also, i'm not sure of your race and it isn't any of my business but i am white and i have also found that some of the conditioners that my black lady friends use on their hair works really good for my hair too!!i love "pink lotion" it really helps alot!but through the years i have found that if i had any problems with my hair that all my black friends have had the greatest ideas..that worked!! Well, good luck to you and your hair!!have a great day!god bless you and yours,T.