S.B.
Hi K.! I would highly suggest starting the transition about two weeks prior to your actual start at work. Bring your son each day until he builds up to full time care. For instance start the first day with 1 hour then 2 hours and keep increasing until you and he gets used to full time or the hours that you will be working. I found that to be helpful. Also, bring your son to a place that you can trust. If your gut tells you something is wrong, it very well could be. Which ever daycare you select contact the Department of Child and Family and find out if that place has any citations or complaints against them. I found that to be extremely comforting. Lastly, remember that it isn't the quantity of time that you spend with your son but rather the quality! It is hard to go back to work, I know however it is done and it will get easier.
Good luck!
S.