3 Mo. Old on an Airplane Flight...

I took my one year old from Philadelphia to Kona, Hawaii with 2 plane changes. It was disasterous! Then I learned the secret of children's benedryl. So he slept a little longer and at odd times. But it worked like a charm!
~C.

I nursed her on way up and down during take off and take the carseat and stroller right up to the door of the plane and they will store it underneath so you don't have to check it in and you will be the first on and off and it will be waiting for you when the door opens. Baby should sleep most of the time, bring blankets and dress in layers so you can judge if shes hot or cold and make sure shes up to date with shots.

I traveled a lot with my daughter when she was an infant. I would limit her sleep starting a day before the trip so that she would be restful on the flight. Also, make sure to have her sucking on something during takeoff so her ears don't pop and hurt her.

I didn't do much different other than that. You can nurse on the plane, as you would anywhere else. Certainly you may be sitting next to someone who is not confortable w/ that so just tell them first or get an isle seat - or privacy blanket.

My only problem was once there was a plane breakdown and I had to haul my 6mo to a ticket counter in another building (w/ no stroller!) to get another flight - then go to the original airline to claim my luggage then haul the luggage to the next airline to check it and wait 3 hours! So I advise having diapers and any backup items you may need to be accessable.

Have fun!

You can check your car seat (I'd reccomend getting one of those car seat protector bags) or if you are renting a car, they usually have them to rent (but they can be dirty). Nursing at take off and landing is said to help with baby's ears, and my kids have flown a lot and does seem to do the trick. You might want to check on how much liquid you can carry on the plane if your thinking of extra bottles, a friend of mine recently had to argue with the attendant to get her extra bottles on due to the current regs. One other thing as far as switching planes- you can bring your stroller right to the gate and check it as you get on the plane (again, you may want to bring a protector bag- or a stroller you don't care much about) OR, my suggestion is to wear your baby in a pouch or sling. Your arms are free and it's so much easier. My experience with babies under about 6-8 months on planes is really good, so hopefully it'll go smoothly for you, too. Good luck!

We traveled for 2 hours with our 3 month old. I nursed her during take off and landing to help with her ears popping. They swallow when nursing which should help to pop there ears if need be. Bring a blanket and a few toys that they are familiar with. My daughter didn't play with that many too many toys at age 3months. When she started to get a little fussy my husband would walk up and down the aisle with her. The flight attendant and other passengers would talk to him and play with the baby for a little bit. Eventually he was able to walk/bounce her to sleep. You have to pay for a seat if you bring the car seat on the plane. If you have to bring a car seat i would recommend bringing it to the gate with you and check it right before you walk onto the plane. Ask if there are extra seats available on the plane.If there are extra seats then ask to bring the car seat on. They will give it to you for free. Its nice when the fall asleep to be able to set them in the seat otherwise they just sleep in your lap.

3 months was surprisingly easy to fly with. It was more my anxiety then the babies. We flew again at 6months and it was a tiny bit harder because my baby was able to talk and scream. She would try to get the person behind us attention so she would talk/scream.

I took my 3 mo. old daughter on her first flight to NYC. Take the baby into the airport in the stroller with the infant carrier. check it all at the gate, that way when you de-plane its all right there and you have free hands again. I was also nursing full time, so I made sure to keep her on her schedule. its great to nurse during take off and landing if you can. It helps with the pressure in their ears. the baby is a bit young to think about toys, but if she has a favorite, doesnt hurt to bring it. Make sure you have tons of diapers and 2 clean outfits in your carryon. we had a few messy diapers in flight and needed fresh clothes. most likely the baby will sleep, like in the car, so holding her in your lap is just like the rocking chair at home. Ask for help from the flight crew, dont be embarassed. And make sure you get on the plane first, you get special permission bc you are travelling with a young child. hope that helps. the hardest part is security check points, once you get past that its pretty easy.

you'll be holding her the whole time so just breastfeed her whenever she wants it - especially during takeoff and landing. it will comfort her in an unusual situation and the sucking will keep her from having any problems with her ears

My baby was 3 months when we flew with her, I was nursing too, we had a row to ourselves (I was in between my 3 year old and husband) so it was not too bad nursing on the plane, I had a nursing cover-up, and it was fine. I also recommend nursing or bottle feeding during take off and landing if your child is awake. And we were able to take our car seat with us on the empty flights, but had to check it and the stroller at the gate on the full flights, we just asked when we were boarding. As far as toys, I just took a few of her favorite rattles, etc. Going through security is kind of a pain, you have to fold up the stroller and send it and the carseat through as you carry the baby through, just something to be prepared for, but I would definitely recommend taking a stroller, it is a lifesaver in the airport.
Good Luck!

my ex-husband & I took our son on his first trip at approx 4 months old. I was nursing him & it was really no problem at all to continue that on the plane (discreetly under a blanet, of course). It seemed to really soothe him, altho you may want to have a bottle ready, just in case you need a break. You might check first with TSA website about regulations for bringing a full bottle through security?

This also might sound bad, but we had a bottle of baby tylenol (I can't remember now) on the trip home to help him to sleep a bit.

One recommendation is definitely to have him start nursing just prior to takeoff & if you can, for landing as well. Babies don't know how to "unpop" their ears!

Since your son is just a few months old, I wouldn't think you'd need to take many toys - maybe just a cpl faves? HOPEFULLY he'll sleep most the time for you. Be sure to take at least 1 outfit to change into (for you & him) in case of throw-up accidents, & plenty of wipes.

As for the carseat, you can check that as if it's a pc. of luggage. I've seen many times ppl wrap them in a heavy-duty garbage bag w/lots of shipping tape. You can take your stroller all the way up the walkway & then they'll take it to check before you go onto the plane. Make sure you're at the gate plenty early so you don't miss your pre-boarding opportunity. This helps IMMENSELY!

Good luck! ~ T.

Hi E.. About 7 1/2 years ago my husband and I took our 3 mo old son to California for his sister's wedding. I was also nursing. We took the car seat since we needed it anyway and strapped it into the seat (you have to put it by the window for safety reasons). For most of the flight he was pretty good, and whenever he needed to eat I discreetly nursed him (my husband took the aisle seat to hide me a little). I pumped a bottle in the bathroom in the airport (yes a little gross, but it didn't touch anything) so I wasn't full, and kept in my cooler in my pump. I also then pumped when we got off of the plane. It's a little bit of a hassle, but it worked fairly well for us and our son only created a minor 2 minute scene while my husband was putting in the car seat. Good luck.

All but one time with my son, we purchased the seat for our little ones when we traveled. However, I do know that if there is an extra seat on the plane you will be able to use it. Also, you will need the carseat when you get there. That being said, you would take the carseat and check it at the gate if you aren't able to get an extra seat. This way you know it is with you on each plane as well and you will get it back as soon as you deplane (not with luggage that may be lost).

Having the extra seat, although more expensive, meant having a place to lie the sleeping child or change a diaper. It alsomeans your child has their own oxygen mask if ever needed. It gives you the extra space parents sometimes need for all of the child's paraphernalia and gives you the ability to take extra carry ons.

Whichever way you go, remember a pacifier and bottle/breastfeeding needs. The change in air pressure can be hard on their little ears. Sucking can help alleviate the discomfort.

Good luck and have a good trip.

I took both my boys on planes as babies. When I didn't have a seat for them, we would check the car seat at the beginning. Some of the trips were great, and others were hard, especially when I got nasty looks from other people. I would bring an extra bottle and ear plugs in case her ears start to hurt. I also tried bring lots of toys to keep interest.

I've done this before and its adventure. Since your not paying for a seat for her then check the carseat with the bags. Take small quiet favorite toys. Let her use a pacifier when the plane takes off and lands. It will help her ears.

Dear E., My daughter was 6 weeks old the first time she crossed the Atlantic, I have now 3 children and travel many times. I am a mother and a retired flight attendant, so here are a few words of wisdom. You are lucky you are nursing, so you do not have to carry bottles and so forth. Car seat: if you intend to use it make sure it is approved for inflight, but understant that if your baby travels as a lap child she will only have a seat if one is available. If the plane is full and the child seat does not fit in overhead you will be able to gate-check it at the door. If you have some toys you know your child enjoys you should bring them. Babie's ears sometimes hurt on take-off and landing due to change in pressure, you can alleviate the pain by nursing or giving a binky. Most airline offer assistance at no extra cost or at a nominal cost. If you think you might have your hands full or a tight connection this is a good service to take advantage of, also it will get you to the top of the line if you have to clear customs and immigration. Make sure to check with airport regulations regarding fluids on board so you have no surprises at the airport. Make sure to drink plenty of water before and during the flight.
I hope to have been helpful, feel free to contact me should you have more questions.
Relax and enjoy your trip!
C.

we took our 6 mos. old grandaughter to disney on the lap and she did great. Just pack some rattles, bottles, pacifier for take off(ears) and whatever you normally pack in the diaper bag. It was only two hours but really not a problem. Usually the flight attendants are helpful. I would not deny yourself a trip. Life is too short

Normally a plane change would be something you would want to avoid, but with an infant it is actually a good thing. I have a 9 month old who has taken 18 commercial flights! I also travel with a 3 year old! The plane change is a good thing because you will have a chance to change a diaper in a real bathroom instead of the airplane bathroom...which is a terrible set-up by the way! All airports have Family Restrooms...look for these they will give you the privacy you need to change diapers go to the bathroom yourself and re-organize before the next flight. I am lucky that neither of my kids have ever had problems with their ears, but it is best to try and feed during take-off and landing to help pop their ears. Just relax and bring a few toys, you'll be fine! Everyone is very nice too...you know, everyone loves a baby! I would bring a bottle because there is so little room and if you are sharing a row with a stranger it may be uncomfortable.

If you don't have a ticket for her you'll have to put your car seat with the luggage. Take a bottle, or two. You want her to be suckking on something durring take-offs and landings so her ears will pop. You might want to consider buying her her own seat so that you can use your car seat and won't have to hold her the entire time. Make sure you have tons of diapers and clothes for her in the diaper bag to, incase your luggage gets misplaced. We didn't do any flying with our kids until they were 2&4...and I just rmembered why!! Good luck & have a great trip.

When my daughter was 5 months old my husband and I, along with our daughter, took a trip to Mexico. We also had one plane change and we were in the air a total of about 5 hours. I was also nursing at the time, but had taught her how to use a cup prior to our trip. My suggestion is not to have too high of an expectation. Both the trip there and home again were pretty difficult and she cried a lot. You just need to stay calm if that happens to you and try not to get upset about what other people on the plane are thinking. It's not like there is much that you can do!

I tried to nurse my daughter every time the plane took off and landed so that her ears would pop, but I think I was nervous and she could sense that and there were a few times that she refused to nurse, which of course resulted in her crying. The one positive thing about that trip was that on the second half of the trip to Mexico we asked for an upgraded seat and we sat in the very first row, which allowed for a little extra room and we could lay her on the floor. Plus, I didn't worry quite so much about other people seeing me nurse. If you could sit in the first row, I would definately recommend it! Having a back-up bottle would probably be a very good idea, just in case she doesn't want to nurse. We also brought along our umbrellas stroller which helped with getting around the airport and it was easy to check at the gate. We however did not take the car seat, so I can't give you any recommendations on that.

I wish you the best of luck! Remember, don't stress out about what happens. She is only 3 months old and there is only so much that you can do while stuck on an airplane!

A.

I did it on a 5 hour flight from Puttsburgh to Albuquerque with a 6-month old. It went very well! You do need you car seat, if nothing else for your travel on the other side. Make sure it's FAA compliant (in case there is a seat). Call ahead to your airline to doublecheck. BRING BACK-UP formula, water, toys, music, diapers, clothes - anything that can go wrong will when you are not prepared. I bought a seat for my son but if there are no seats available then leave the carseat in checked baggage.
Best of luck!
S., Pittsburgh, PA

I didn't take my car seat, just the stroller. Nursing during take-off and landing is a good idea so that her ears don't bother her. Or at least something to suck on. I would take a bottle, just in case. If you are going to be in a car where you are going, then you will need the carseat. Just remember how much luggage you are taking, they will count that too or charge you extra. It will be a fine trip and you will look back when you get home and say boy I wasn't expecting that. Layovers or breakdowns aren't bad as long as you have a stroller. Good luck and have a great time!

I took my son on a cross-country flight about this age. Since you are nursing, you probably don't need her carseat. She will sit on your lap most of the time and may be interested in a few toys. I wouldn't bring much. I would strongly suggest purchasing some sort of metal-free sling to carry her. My favorite was the Moby wrap www.mobywarp.com which is just a long stretchy piece of material. I could hold my son and carry bags through security (no metal means you don't have to take it off!) then he could also nurse, sleep and play while being next to me. I had him nurse, suck a bottle, or use a binky during take off and landing when he was awake. I found I did NOT need to wake him up to suck if he was sleeping. It didn't seem to bother his ears. If you do decide to take a stroller/car seat, take it all the way to the gate and gatecheck. Personally, these were a huge pain for me. Best of luck and enjoy your trip! If you need any other suggestions, feel free to email me! Believe it or not, flying with an infant is pretty easy--it's toddlers that are tough :)

I know how you feel--I did it with a 6 month old. It wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be! The flight attendants are great with kids and very accomodating. At Babies R' Us you can find a special cover for your car seat & base that is easily checked with your luggage. You can take the stroller right onto the plane with you--they will store it up front and have it ready for you when you get off the plane. During the flight, nurse your baby on the way up and down to avoid pressure build up in her ears. Don't take too much stuff on the plane (not a lot of room)--maybe a few books/toys. I took a nursing cover and my son pretty much nursed and slept the whole time (and he's not normally a good sleeper). I did take a bottle as a back up, but didn't need it. Good luck!

We flew from Pgh to Hawaii a few months ago, when my son was about 2 1/2 months, and it actually went really well. I traveled alone with my son on the way back home. I think that age is the best to take them on the plane. We took the carseat with us (without the base) and checked it at the gate, and carried our son in an infant carrier (Snugli). If you have an infant carrier with no metal on it, then you can "wear" your daughter through the security check (you don't have to remove the carrier to put it through the screening process.) If you take the carseat with you to check it in at the gate, then you might get lucky and have an empty seat next to you, and then you can bring the carseat on the plane to put your it (this happened for us a couple of times), just ask the attendant at the counter if you have an empty seat next to you. Another tip, that seemed to help, is to wait to feed your baby for take-off and landing if possible. The swallowing action is supposed to help keep their ears from popping. As far as toys go, bring what you think you will need, or what your baby usually plays with. My son just slept most of the time.

Good luck, and enjoy your trip.

Hi E.,

I took my son on several plane flights when he was an infant. I would say bring your car seat with you (I got a carrier for it that had wheels so that I could drag it if needed and if I had to gate check it - it was protected by the carrier - they sell them at Babies R Us). Frequently, there are extra empty seats on the plane - so you can often get a separate seat for your baby and can install your car seat on the plane. This will make the flight more comfortable for you. You can also gate check your stroller - so that it will make getting through the airport easier. They bring it right up to the plane jetway - so you don't have to go to baggage claim to get it and you will have it for your connecting flight to make getting to the next plane easier. You can gate check both the stroller and the car seat - so even if you don't get a seat for the baby - it will be easy to take care of your car seat.

You might want to bring a chew toy or something for the baby to play with - but she is young, so don't worry about bringing too much stuff. The best thing you can do for your baby is to nurse her during take off and landing. This will help her to pop her ears and will also make it so that she isn't frightened. My son usually nursed and fell asleep whenever we were on the plane. I wore nursing tops so that it was easy to nurse him discretely. This is my favorite top because the nursing access is very easy: <http://www.mothersboutique.com/clontwinlosl.html&gt;. You can also use a nursing cover which will help you to be discreet as well <http://www.mothersboutique.com/nursingcover.html&gt;.

You will do great. When you get to your gate, tell the gate agent that you have an infant and that you need gate check tags for the stroller and car seat. Also ask if there are any empty seats so that you can get a seat for your baby. They are usually really good about helping with this. They typically announce pre-boarding for people traveling with small children - so pre-board early so that you will have time to install the car seat (if necessary) and get settled with your baby.

Have a great trip!

J.

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Hi,

I flew with my daughter to Europe when she was 5 months old.
I brought a comfy pillow with me and lay her on my lap. I was able to breastfeed her on that pillow. It felt pretty private and she slept the whole way there. Bottles just seemed like too much of a hassle (you need a cooler and to warm them up and stuff). As for walking around the airport we brought her stroller, that way everything wasn't in our hands and you can just check it right before you board the plane and it will be waiting for you when you get out.

A 3 month old shouldn't be too much trouble. Most airlines will let you take your car seat onto the plane IF there is an available extra seat. If not, you have to gate check it, they take it as you board the plane tag it, and give you the ID tag and you get it as you get off the plane. You can do this with the stroller too. We did this and it worked just fine. If you take bottles, formula, breast milk you just have to tell the screeners at the security point that they are in the bag and you should not have any trouble. I never breast fed so I'm not sure how comfortable you will be nursing on the plane, very close quarters. My kids did not have any ear trouble but I gave the little one a bottle on take off, she slept through landing both times. Be sure to change diaper before getting on the plane, difficult to do in the tiny bathroom, although not impossible. Good Luck, you'll be fine!

Hi, E..

I had a family emergency when my daughter was 4 or 5 months old, and we had to take 2 planes to Florida. I say - just don't sweat it. She's likely to sleep on the planes for a majority of the trip. Give her something to suck on (whether it's your breast or a pacifier) during take off and landing to help her ears adjust. And otherwise, just cuddle her and entertain her as you do at home. I brought a couple of board books and toys for my daughter to keep her occupied, but mostly she slept. The layovers were great, so I could stretch my legs, and we could have a break from travel. (Fortunately, layover was never too long.)

We checked the carseat & base with our luggage, and it arrived fine & undamaged at our destination (though you should ask if they have a bag for it -- often airlines will provide a plastic bag to cover the carseat to protect it from getting dusty & dirty en route.)

Young babies are much easier to travel than older.

And many passengers will be only too happy to help keep a baby entertained if it means NOT having to hear a baby cry.

And if your baby does cry, don't worry about everyone else. What's important is your baby and her happiness, not what other people think.

For what it's worth, I think a bottle would be more trouble than needed, if you're currently breastfeeding.

Hello I'm D.. I took my son on a plane at a very young age and it was an experience. I also was nursing. The first piece of advice I would give you is to try and calm yourself down because your child can feel your stress (or nerves if you will). If you don't have a seat for you infant check the car seat with the airline as luggage. Pack your diaper bag as usual but add extra diapers, at least 1 outfit and possibly a backup romper. Take your childs favorite small toys or things you know soothe her. Pack bottles of breast milk because it's familiar to her. If you use a supplement take that also but be willing to nurse. My son did not enjoy his first flight and I wish I would have asked these very questions (don't allow my experience scare you my son was a premie and didn't tolorate alot of stimulization) Hope and pray all works out for you and I hope this was helpful.

When my daughter was 3 months I flew with her from Germany to the U.S. and I breast fed full time as well.
I found it easier breastfeeding them messing with a bottle on the plane. I was told to just breastfeed while take off and I never had any problems.
I she uses a binkie then that I heard is a big help. But we survived without one. Plus her being able to lay on my chest and feel my heart was a huge help she slept most of the 9 hour flight.....
Just relax. If you are stressed she sense it. Have great flight...

Hi E.,
Your daughter should be fine on the plane. We took my 2 kids last year (ages 3 and 10 months) on a 2 hr plane ride and the little one didn't have a ticket either. He slept on my from the time the plane took off until it landed. I did have a couple of bottles ready (which they recommend so their ears don't pop at take off and landing) and I really think the hum of the engine let him sleep. On the ride back home, he slept for most of it, but we had toys, etc to keep him busy. Good luck!!!

We have taken our 4 month old on 2 plane trips... 6 hours to California and 2 hours to Michigan. I pumped beforehand and just fed her breast milk in a bottle. On the longer flight I actually pumped in the airplane bathroom as well. If the timing is right, it is best to try to feed during takeoff and landing to relieve pressure in the ears... or you can try a pacifier st these times. On the first flight we brought her stroller/car seat and gate checked them. On the shorter flight i put her in the baby bjorn and her held through the airport and the flight. Both of these worked well. However if you don't have another adult with you, getting through security with the car seat/stroller is a challenge. Toys were really not an option once she was on the flight/my lap, but there was lot for her to look at. also, the motion of the plane/noise seemed to lull her to sleep similar to a long drive in the car. changing her on the plane was the most challenging and it depends on the size of the plane. On the big plane to CA there was a nice changing table. On the small plane to MI, I had to put her changing pad on top of the closed toilet, which was one of the worst experiences I have had as a new mom:( She cried terribly, and we stayed in the bathroom for about 15 min until she was calmer.

The best and worst thing about flying with a baby are the people. There were the dirty looks when I boarded the plane with my infant. However, overwhelmingly people went out of their way to help me get through security, stow my luggage, and offer a helping hand in numerous ways. So many women (and few men) who are moms/grandmas themselves understand the challeneg and made the whole experience more pleasant:)

Are you going to be traveling with another adult? If so, request seats such that one of you gets the window seat, one gets the aisle seat, and the middle seat is left open. This seat will then be one of the last seats on the plane that is assigned to anyone, so you have a good chance of having it remain empty (if it does get assigned, the person sitting there will likely not have a problem swapping with one of you so that you can sit with your travel partner. Oh, and also ask about bulk-head seating, as this will give you more room and no chance of the person in front of you leaning back.

You should "gate check" the carseat only after finding out that the middle seat has been assigned. Because of the way baggaged is bashed around, you never want to do the regular check with a carseat.

Take off and landing can be the most difficult times with babies because of their ears popping. You should have the baby in the carseat at this time, and give a binky or bottle to help pop the ears.

Especially if you are traveling with someone else, consider trying to be one of the last people to board the plane so that you don't spend so much time in a confined area with the baby. Let your travel partner pre-board with as much stuff as he/she can carry--including the carseat. Then you go in later.

Good luck!

I flew with my daughter for the first time when she was four months old. We did not take a car seat as she was a "lap baby" and we would have had to pay for an extra seat. I did however stock up on a few new toys that she never got to see until after take off so they would be new to her. Also I worried about the air pressure effecting her ears. She was a pacifier user so I made sure that she had her binkie on take off and landing as the sucking reflex forces swallowing which helps to alleviate the ear pressure. I have also nursed her on take off and landing for the same reason. If you're using a stroller you can check it at the gate. It makes getting thru security go a bit longer but it makes the trip easier. Also, they will go thru a diaper bag with intensity so have patience. And don't use a baby carrier in the airport b/c you'll be taking the baby in and out during security and it's just a pain. The best advice I ever got about flying with an infant was to relax and take it minute by minute. And pay no attention to the looks you'll get from other passengers. You're there for your child's comfort and not theirs. My daughter surprised the heck out of us and ended up being an angel the whole flight and on the connections. She's still a great flyer to this day! Hope this helps and have a good trip!

Our daughter's first flight was when she was about 6 months old, so I know where you're coming from! Yes, pack a bottle or two as a back up. You never know if there are going to be delays, especially with a transfer of planes. Take some toys and use your carry-on to take everything you would need for a 24-hour trip (diapers, wipes, bottles, toys, etc.). Airports are not very baby friendly and you don't want to be caught off-guard. If you're going to travel to/from the airport at your destination, you're going to need your car seat. Since you're carrying her in your lap, you'll have to check the car seat. But, if you've got one of the combinations where the car seat is attached to the stroller, take her in the stroller through the airport. Bear in mind that the stroller will have to collapse down and go through security screening. However, you can take the stroller up to the door of the airplane and gate check it so that it gets put in the cargo area last and it will be waiting for you outside the door of the plane when you arrive at your destination. Taking the stroller will help you navigate through the airport as well - instead of having to carry her constantly & you can use any storage area on the stroller to help you carry everything. And, it will give her a comfortable/familiar place to nap if there are delays. Do try to get her to drink from the bottle at take-off and landing because her ears will pop, it will be painful/new to her, and she'll cry. Allow plenty of travel time to get through the airport, too. It will take you longer than normal, especially putting everything through security.

Good luck!

I know how you feel. My daughter's first flight was not at 3 mos, but it was trans-atlantic so we prepared for the worst. Truth is, you will find out while flying just how well your daughter will handle it. My husband and I discovered last year that our car seats are not suitable for air travel; times have changed. If you are unsure they will tell you at the gate and take it down below if necessary. You can also check your stroller at the gate. Notify someone at the gate and they will tag it for you and it will be waiting on the walkway as soon as you get off the plane (be the last ones off to ensure this).

Try to check in early and request bulkhead seats. If they cannot offer them, do not hesitate to ask whoever is sitting in them to switch with you (no one with the airlines can do that for you). They say it is first come first serve, but most of the time no one asks for them. The only time I would not ask for a switch is if someone elderly or really tall were already sitting there. Just pluck up your courage and be sure to hold your baby when you ask! Quite often my husband and I do not sit together during flights if it means I can have bulkhead.

It is good that you are breastfeeding because that is the ultimate comfort. The sucking will help her ears equalize on take off and landing so be sure to feed her during those times if she gets fussy. I would recommend bringing a small pillow or blanket you can bunch up under your arm for when you feed her. Those armrests hurt when you are breastfeeding and if you hold her for the entire flight, you will need the support. I think you can purchase a seat for her, but you will be charged for a toddler ticket. Be absolutely positive your car seat is suitable for air travel, otherwise that will be money wasted. Since she is so young, I would not bother, though.

As far as toys or other things go, bring what soothes her. Do not worry if the toy crinkles or has a bell on it. Better that than a screaming baby. I found that the constant noise from the cabin lulled my daughter into a few naps. The noise also masks if you sing quietly to her. Just remember, you will never see any of these people again. You do whatever is necessary to make her comfortable.

Some bad news: keep in mind the cabin air is recirculated and your daughter could get sick after flying. Being a baby she is susceptible to a lot, but thankfully they are so sturdy. It is annoying the number of people who fly when ill without any regard to others. My girls have fallen ill after a few flights, but it is a risk you take. You should be safe since we are getting out of flu season, but just thought I should warn you to keep an eye on her in the following days. Sorry to end on a sour note. Hope this helps. All the best for a good flight experience! ~Routhie

Hi -- our 5-month old has been on 6 flights (3 trips), and none were a problem. You can simply gate check the stroller and the car seat (remember to attach the base to the car seat when you gate check it). Our son was never really fussy, but, just in case he got fussy from ear pain, our doc recommended we bring baby tylenol to alleviate the pain (we didn't need it). I breastfed him on every take off and landing but one, just put a blanket over my shoulder. Really, very easy. I hear it gets harder when they are more mobile and don't want to sit still! Plus, with almost every airline (not Southwest anymore), you can pre-board. Hope that helps! Must go feed baby....

Definitely take your car seat & stroller right up to the check-in gate. It makes it easier to travel through the airport with your infant & bags. At the gate, ask if there are empty seats on the flight. If so, they will let you take your carseat onboard and use it. If the flight is full, you put #'d ID tags on your seat & stroller, and leave them (folded) at the entrance to the plane. They will be waiting for you right as you deplane, so you can immediately put your baby back in the seat/stroller. This also guarantees that your carseat & stroller stay with you and don't get lost as luggage. With a flight change, if you check your carseat as luggage, that could be a problem.
As far as bottles, it seems like it would be more of a hassle if you are breastfeeding. If you're worried about being in public, bring a blanket. We just travelled with my breast fed 6m old and brought one bottle as back up - but it was hard to keep it cool, and then it wasn't the right temperature. More trouble than it was worth, and I just breastfed in the least crowded corner I could find in the airport. We did not have any problems at the security checkpoint with the bottle, and I read on the TSA website that there is NOT a limit to bottles (you just need to declare them at the checkpoint), but try to limit it what you need for your flights. My baby fell asleep before take off, and slept the whole flight, until AFTER we landed (3hrs). I did NOT wake her to feed her - since she wasn't fussing, I felt like her ears were not bothering her. Also, pack more diapers than you think you need in your carry-on bag, and bring an extra outfit or 2 for baby and diaper cloths if she tends to spit up. I wouldn't bother with too many toys at her age. You can bring one carry-on and one personal item (purse, diaper bag, camera, etc) per person. Change the baby just before getting on the plane, as those tiny bathrooms are horrendous for changing a little one. If you are lucky enough to have an extra seat, simply lay down a changing pad on the seat and change baby there discreetly. It's a MUCH better option than the TINY metal bathroom changing tables, trust me!

I wouldn't bother with a bottle - it will only add another step to hassle with through security. I just traveled with my 4 month old and it went really well. Our trip was similar to what you described. I nursed my daughter during take off and landing to help with the change of pressure. She either slept or sat happily during the flight. You may want to bring one toy that your daughter seems interested in, but I wouldn't load up on too many. Also, the FAA has a really helpful website for tips when traveling with children. Hope this helps.

Hi! I just took my (then)4.5 month old daughter from PA to CA with great success! (Success to me is that she didn't scream or have ear-pain!)

My Pediatrician told me to take her on the plane "tired and hungry. Feed her during take off (to help her ears adjust), and the hum of the engine will help her to go to sleep." I had purchased a seat on the plane for her, and am glad I did since I didn't have anyone to help me, and I could put her in her carseat to get a break from holding her. Since it sounds like you will have your hubby, y'all can take turns holding the baby. You forget how small those plane seats are!!

I took my normal diaper bag items and put them in my carry-on bag (a backpack), and a change of sleeper for her and a change of top for me, just in case. If you have bottles of formula(or breastmilk), they will make you "declare" them when you go through security. It sounds like you could check your carseat either as a carry-on or to go down with your luggage. Even though you have a plane-change, you will have help, so it should be ok. You can always ask for the "golf-cart" guy to come get you all if you have to traverse a long distance too.

The tricky part is changing a baby in those tiny airplane bathrooms! My daughter had a poopy diaper, I had to change her, and there was no pull-down changing table!! You know, you just do what you have to! I put her blanket on the closed toilet seat and did the dirty duty!

I understand about being a bit nervous, so was I! However, I had a plan for all things considered, and I am really proud of how my little one did! I also made it a point to remain calm since babies soooo pick up on what we are going through. The worst thing that could happen is that your baby cries. Oh well! Other folks will just have to live with it! It is not like you know what to expect, right? Don't worry! It will be fine. You will do great!

The first time I traveled on a plane my one daughter was 6 years old and the other was 4 weeks old, it was just me and them. I have to tell you the airports treat you great when you have children. The car seat they put that below the plane with the stroller. They actually accommodate you very well and take great care of you. On the plane I would take just a few toys, your child is only three months old so I really don't think toys will be a big issue. Regarding bottles, is there anyway you can pump some milk for bottles since you are nursing, I was nursing at the time and that is what I did, although she slept most of the time. When we arrived they allowed my husband to come onto the plane to help me, I am not sure if you are meeting anyone at your destination, but if you are see if they can do the same. In regards to the car seat and stroller, when we arrived they brought it right to me. I have to tell you I was nervous about flying by myself with both my children but everyone was nice and helpful, remember that is their job. If need be call ahead and tell them that you are traveling with an infant and that you have a car seat and that you have to switch planes. I hope some of this helps. Don't worry everything will be fine. Just make sure everthing you need for the little one is in your carry on. Be safe.

I believe you can put the carseat in with your luggage. My mother in law took my son to florida when he was 6 months and I think they had a limit to how many bottles you can carry on with you. You may want to check out their website or call and see what their policy is. Also while you are taking off, have her drink some water or something so her ears don't pop. My mother in law got lucky because we scheduled her flight for during his nap time so he would sleep during the flights and he slept both on the way there and on the way back. I would bring a couple little toys for her to play with. And maybe see if you can bring some one to the airport with you to help out with the baby and all the luggage. We went to the airport with her because she couldn't carry all her luggage, his luggage, the car seat, the carry on and him by herself and they let us through security and everything to help her with him. They were very helpful in that way. I hope I answered you questions. Good luck and have fun.

E.,

Yesterday I posted for a mom who would be flying with a 7 month old. I am going to copy and paste my answer here...which is really in response to her specific question, but a lot of the info is the same. I would bring the car seat to the plane; if there's an empty seat, you'll have a free seat for your daughter, and she'll be comfy in her familiar seat. If there are no empty seats for the car seat, the seat will be taken with your stroller at the plane door, and it will be wating for you when you exit the plane. A very nice system! Sometimes I miss having a stroller with me all the way to the door! What an easy way to carry everything! Specifically, take your stroller with you all the way to the door, with the baby in it. When you are about to step on the plane, you'll take the baby out, fold the stroller and leave it right outside the plane door (in the walkway to the plane). (If you have specific questions, just ask before you board.) It is so convenient! I always had more than one stroller, and I tended to take my smallest one with me for travel (what was called a 4-in-1 back then, where the car seat fit right in...I know there are upgraded versions of that now).

Also, I know you already have your flight, so nothing to change for this trip, but in the future you might want to consider non-stop flights...not just direct flights (which may stop but without a plane change), but non-stop. Although my kids now are 9 and 12 and are great, seasoned travelers, and although money is not flowing, we still opt to pay a little more money for a non-stop flight. It just is so much easier with kids...less chance of ear problems on the plane, less time to get antsy, less chance of delays that set back the whole day and sleep cycle, less chance to be extra hungry because of delays, less chance to cut into the vacation if there are delays. Of course, a non-stop flight can have delays, too, but the more fights you have on a trip, the more of a chance for delays you have. Just my philosophy!

Also, relax! Your daughter will be fine, but if you're stressed and nervous, she may pick up on that and be less relaxed on the flight!

Have a nice, safe flight, and good luck!

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Our kids have been traveling for years, starting at 7 months old! They have been great travelers! They are now 9 and 12, so when we started all this there was no option for the discounted tickets.

We would try to travel when the flights were less crowded, like at 8 AM. We would book an aisle and a window where there are 3 seats across and cross our fingers that no one would be in the middle. That worked all but 1 time. We ALWAYS brought our car seat, and we had to check it at the gate just that one time.

Soon after, the option of buying an infant seat at 50% off started, and we always took that option. Yes, we hated spending the extra money, but we looked at it as a major safety issue, and being in a car seat on a plane is the safest way for a baby to fly. (You can research this, as I did.) Also, your baby no doubt is used to spending time in a car seat. We found that our kids were not restless during the flights and were quite content to stay in their car seats, someplace very familiar and comfortable for them. Sometimes they slept on flights, sometimes they didn't, but they always were easy travelers, and I think their familiar car seats was a big reason for this.

Keep your child drinking on take off and, even more importantly, on landing, to avoid any ear discomfort (which would lead to a screaming child). I would hold off on the liquids right before a flight so that my babies would be thirsty on take off. Then I would hold off as much as possible during the flight, so they will want to drink a lot during the longer, sometimes more painful (to the ears) landing process.

I nursed my kids, but not on the flights, although I know a lot of people do do that. I brought pumped milk with us for them for the flights; as much as I really wanted to nurse on the flights...help with the ear thing, as well as the normal routine...my husband and I felt it more important to keep the babies in their car seats, especially for the take-off and landing...so we fed expressed milk in bottles. (I don't know what the TASA regs are on all that now.)

I always brought both familiar and new toys for the ride there and the ride back. I used to wrap them (maybe not at 7 months) to add to the excitement.

Also, travel with lots of extras...diapers, milk, snacks, etc...just in case of flight delays.

Additionally, international flights often reserve bulkhead seats for families with infants, and they will put "sleeping cots" in front of the seats, attached to the wall. I don't recall seeing this in the U.S., but I may be wrong. A bulkhead seat will give you more leg room. Often, however, the arms cannot go up on the bulkhead seats, between the seats (at least on the larger, international flights), so as your child gets older you may not want that if you want him to be able to cuddle against you during a flight!
Good luck on your trip!

To what part of FL will you be traveling? We travel to FL every year and I can recommend some great places for you to go to with your little one!

Have fun!

My daughter was two weeks old when we flew from the west coast to the east coast......she's adopted and we were bringing her home. Its important on takeoff and landing to have her either eating or sucking on a pacifier to help the pressure in the ears. More than likely, she'll nap most of the flight like my daughter did. We did diaper changes laying her across the tray tables since the bathrooms are so small on planes. I laid a blanket down and then put her on top of it. We had a layover with a flight change, also, and tried to get a feeding and diapaer changing in between flights. Make sure you have the basics with you on board.....extra diapers in case of delays, a few pacifiers, and if you think you'll need a few bottles, I would bring them, and a few basic toys, a blanket or two, a few outfit change, etc. Also, you can check the car seat in baggage when you check in. They will do a security check of it first, though, and will put a tag on it. Good luck!

This I know about. I've got advice for you. Check the car seat, stroller, and toys. Pack a few items- 2 changes of clothing, 5 diapers, wipes in a ziplock bag- in a carryon along with a few items for you- a change of clothing- so that you have something incase of big poops or lost luggage. Get one of those strap on devices that attaches baby to you in the event to a crash or severe turbulence. It is called the "Baby B'Air". I used one with one of my children when we traveled a lot. I bought it on ebay and sold it on ebay when she was old enough for her own seat. Get one in the right size and hook baby to you as soon as you get on the plane. It says not FAA approved for take off/ landing- but just hook it right away, no one ever made me unhook it or even questioned me about it.

DO NOT FEED BABY BEFORE GETTING ON THE PLANE!!! This is the most important thing. That baby needs to be HUNGRY, STARVING, FAMISHED!!! It was early morning when we left the house and I didn't feed her until we were boarded and in the air. She was HUNGRY! She fussed a bit before we took off and in the airport- we kept her occupied the best we could. The reason for this is to keep them breastfeeding/ bottle feeding durring the flight to minimize the ear pain and to keep them asleep! Trust me this works! Baby has to be starving and tired! I know it works like a charm for breastfeeding- and don't forget the harness that attaches baby to you in the air- the Baby B'Air. It cost me about $60 on ebay, but I sold it for the same amt when I was done using it! It looks to me like it has come down in price considerably since then and is selling new for about $30.

As for packing, a 3 month old doesn't need many toys- just take a few small interesting things, concentrate on packing clothing -as diapers and wipes can be purchased wherever you are. Use the hotel laundry if you are staying in one, if you have to visit a laundromat or wash babies things in the sink and hang to dry in the bathroom!

I've done this many times from about 3 mos old, it works like a charm everytime. Just try to be scheduled to leave early in the morning so baby will be good and hungry when you get on the plane!Good luck!

We fly from the east coast to the west about once a year, so I'm getting to be a pro. You are already one step ahead b/c you are nursing. It is the best pacifier in the world (take off & landing). Try to get a window seat for some privacy while nursing. I'd give the baby some tylenol about 20 minutes before take off. It will help w/ ear pressure & sleep. The biggest one: check your stroller as luggage. If you don't, you will have to unload it, fold it up, & stick it through the security x-ray machine (convayer belt). All that while holding a baby & getting your own stuff through the machine. And the people at security aren't very helpful getting your stuff together & people behind you get impatient. Use the diaper bag as your purse. Then you only have one bag to put through security. When the plane gets ready to load they normally let those who need assistance get on 1st (children are included in this), so get in line. Before take off ask the flight attendant for a couple bottles of water. It takes them awhile to serve drinks & you'll be thirsty if you are nursing. Some of the restrooms have a changing table right above the back of the toilet. If not, you will have to change on your lap or on the floor in the back. Target sells these blue scented bags for dirty diapers. They are in the baby section normally toward the top row. They really keep the smell intack. You just need to knot it. I always have some in my diaper bag. (they are helpful for going to friends houses too. You can leave it in the diaper bag & it doesn't smell the place up). Most flight attendant love babies. They are away from their children for days at a time. They are very helpful.

Check your car seat - you won't be able to take it on board with your daughter having a seat. However, bring a small portable stroller with you. You can "gate check" it - meaning you can take it right as far as the plane, and when you arrive at your destination, they airline will have it for you as soon as you step onto the jetway.

When I travelled with my 2 kids as babies, I gave them Infant Tylenon before leaving and again before landing (7 hours later in Ireland) to alleviate any ear pressure. I also nursed during takeoff/landing to encourage swallowing for the same reason. Other than that, a pacifier if she uses one. Don't burden yourself with toys - more for you to carry in addition to diapers, etc. Just keep it simple. Happy travels.