N.P.
Hi R.!
I swear.....these kids are like Houdini! It does sound like it might be time :O) Even though my son could climb out of his crib, I left the crib in his room for awhile longer. But knowing that he could get out at any time, I definitely had to change a few things!
One thing especially.....We had a 2-story, so I needed to put a baby gate at the top of the stairs, so I could sleep better at night! My neighbor put her baby gates on her kids doorways, so they couldn't get out of their rooms without calling her.
Anyway,After discovering his new found freedom, my son just explored his independence, and thought because he COULD get out of bed, that he WOULD get out of bed at any time he wanted. This was the part I wasn't ready for! :O)
Should your son exercise his authority like mine did, it takes alot of patience to keep putting him back to bed and teaching him "bedtime" rules. You will figure it out, but just be prepared. This is the about the age when I FINALLY relaxed at night and began to sleep so sound, then this started. I felt like I had an infant all over again (sleep wise).
How cute, R.! Just make sure he's safe whenever he helps himself out of bed. Everything else will be fine.
About your stepson, how weird that he chose to go recently live with mom. At his age, they seem to need their dad's so much more.......I hope life is going well for him. It's such an awkward age.
~N. :O)