19 Month Old Bangs His Head on Anything

Updated on November 24, 2011
M.C. asks from Topeka, KS
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My 19 month old will bang his head on whatever he can bang it on, the wall, the floor, his crib, anything! I noticed he does this when he gets mad or frustrated or he doesnt get what he wants. Is this normal? When he does this I will look away but yet keep an eye on him to make sure he's not hurting himself. I think he does this for attention but he has been doing this for almost a year now! Should I just keep kinda ignoring him but keep an eye on him, like I've been doing? Or is there something else that I can try to get him to not do this anymore?

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C.D.

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My daughter did this for almost a year and a half. She stopped before she turned two, I believe. I talked to her pediatrician and did research. While sometimes this can be a sign of a developmental issue, there are usually other signs that you are seeing as well that would be concerning (arm flapping, not responding to his name or other sounds, lining up toys in a rigid manner, etc) My ped said it was simply a way for my daughter to communicate that she was upset. Our daughter, now almost 4 years old, is very strong willed and gets frustrated easily, so head banging was simply part of her personality and temperament. I also read a study that said that children who bang their heads as toddlers are often very intelligent. We had our daughter assessed by a developmental pediatrician and psychologist just before she turned 3 and determined she has no disability (like autism or aspergers) and she tested as having "very high cognitive abilities."

So, while I would talk to your ped about it, I would not assume this is something to get overly worried about. You probably just have a really smart kiddo that is learning how to vent his frustrations. I think you are doing absolutely the right thing by ignoring it and making sure he is safe. Our doc told us that she couldn't really hurt herself anyway doing this.

Best wishes!

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M.P.

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I also suggest talking with his pediatrician about this. I know that there can be medical or emotional issues that cause this. If he has an issue, it's best to treat it as early as possible.

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B.P.

answers from New York on

Ask your pediatrician. I know some kids do this but that seems to be a long time he has been banging. My son never did this, so I can't speak from experience.

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A.Y.

answers from Kansas City on

I'm a pediatric chiropractor & in my experience, this behavior is often an indicator of cranial misalignment.

This is an article written for chiropractors, so lots of medical language, but it explains how emotions create tension in the skull & how head-banging (and other things) can be indicators of this misalignment:

http://www.theamericanchiropractor.com/articles-technique...

I just googled "pediatric chiropractic head banging" and this was the top link. Happens to be written by my mentor, Dr. Koren. KST is a very gentle technique (no twisting or popping) & there is emphasis on adjusting cranial bones.

Hope that is helpful.

Alyssa

C.P.

answers from Columbia on

My first reaction was: Squirt bottle! Train him not to do it like I trained my cat to stay off the countertops!

Okay...kidding. Kind of.

Is he in physical pain? This is unusual. I'd talk to the pediatrician.

L.M.

answers from Kansas City on

could be a sensory thing - ask your pediatrician... or ear infection or teething pain

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